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Post by Sunshine on May 17, 2007 20:20:48 GMT -5
Men think the louder they talk, the more we women listen when in fact the exact opposite is the case?
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Post by woody on May 17, 2007 20:27:46 GMT -5
cause we have to talk loud enough for you to hear us why is that women think they have to yell to get our attention? when all they need is to wear little clothing and stand in the door way ;D
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Post by Sunshine on May 18, 2007 7:07:56 GMT -5
we dont want that kind of atention woody LOL..not all the time, we want affection,not sex..theyre too different things.
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Post by cajunbill2 on May 18, 2007 9:18:56 GMT -5
wood........a woman likes a man to think of them and not like a sex object...they get tired of being pawed on all the time.they like to be told they look good ,held,taken out to a romantic candle light dinner,even give a woman some flowers to make them feel special..but just a good plain chat will make them happy...a woman can be kelped happy if the man was not so self centered ......and we are....a womans job is a 24/7 seven days a week but the man ole no his is at the most 10 hours a day with some time set a side for a little play time ..like trapping ,fishing ect......so if you want a happy woman then give her a couple days a week and do what she wants to do.
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Post by woody on May 18, 2007 11:41:41 GMT -5
Bill, your preachin to the choir , I already know that. cath, I know the difference , I just wished I would have married one that likes to cuddle and hold hands and do all that mushy stuff ;D which is as fun as sex if not more. I better shut up before I get into trouble and get banned
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Post by Sunshine on May 18, 2007 12:30:39 GMT -5
most men either dont wanna snuggle or theyre to proud to let the female they care about see them vulnerable, it makes em feel weak. To me one of the sexiest things a man can do is admit he just wants to beheld. It makes you feel closer because he can trust you enough to tell you his inner feelings and you know that he trusts you not to use it against him.Thats what love is about. Complete trust, even in weakness to know youre partner will be there for you and love you unconditionally and never viloate the trust you have in them.
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Post by woody on May 18, 2007 12:49:50 GMT -5
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Post by cajunbill2 on May 18, 2007 15:39:14 GMT -5
dang woody she got you to smile and shut up at the same time karma for her.
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Post by woody on May 18, 2007 16:05:44 GMT -5
I have to watch what I say bill, or I'll get in trouble ;D, anyway's Bill, I know when to shut up before the butt whippin begins ;D, she has trained me well ;D You know cath, to be honest, after ready that, I would hate to hear what you really think of me
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Post by Earl8656 on May 19, 2007 3:08:05 GMT -5
Certain days call for Certain ways. Not all men are secure enough to ever become vulnerable. A lot of that depends on the woman.
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Post by huckleberry on May 19, 2007 11:34:57 GMT -5
LMAO...Although I agree with jsut about everything ya'll have said.....I bet a dollar to a donut that I can show ya gal that aint that way. I know...I have tried it all with her.
I have been the perfect gentleman with her, been a little more aggressive, without being stupid, held her close and comforted her, tickled her, kissed her, rubbed her back, talked softly, made her giggle, talked to her very seriously. What have I got to show for any of it? "I don't know ya well enough to say anything yet"........ I tell her often how purdy she is, she tells me to hush, or quit it. I don't tell her , she reminds me I haven't. WTH is that about?
So I tried to let her know I aint no "lap dog" either. Didn't call her for a day, that got me an butt chewing, which was better than nothing at all I spose. Told her to do whatever herself, cause I aint her slave, and told her I didn't wanna see her last night. Aint heard from her yet today. I doubt I will.
No two ways about it, women are the most cunning, using, non-comittal critters on earth. Ya aint gonna please them everyday no matter what ya do. I gave her a full day of noting but doing what she needed done , and I got a "cya, I am goin shoppin". Then, when she asked me when I was gonna trap the squirells from her attic, I said when ya pay me the set up fee. She acted appalled!!!!
Oh well, her loss. All I ask was she be honest and up front, if she caint do that, to bad.
Now I will say, she was there for me yesterday when I needed someone to hold onto. I am grateful to her for that. She ever decides to her head out of her butt and talk some, she would be a great gal.
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Post by Sunshine on May 19, 2007 13:54:33 GMT -5
is this the red head you were so happy with a couple days ago?
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Post by huckleberry on May 19, 2007 16:09:48 GMT -5
the one and the same....I aint given up though...she is a good gal....just needs to open up abit......
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Post by woody on May 19, 2007 20:37:10 GMT -5
slow is the key word here huck , if she's interested, she'll let ya know, you just have to let her know your willin to give her the time she needs to do what ever it is she has to. one thing I have learned about women is they are never happy, either we are smothering them or we're not givin them enough attention and affections , the only thing I can say is good luck and I hope it works out for ya.
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Post by huckleberry on May 19, 2007 21:15:21 GMT -5
I got the patience to wait for anyone I think is worth waitin on.....but dang...they have to talk and let me know what they want....ya caint do a thing iffn ya have no idea what the problem is or what ya need to do.....She did call me tonight....I was surprised really......
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Post by woody on May 19, 2007 21:18:47 GMT -5
so Y are you here and not out with her?
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Post by huckleberry on May 19, 2007 21:46:19 GMT -5
LOL...She had to work today...she is a RN and works 12-14 hour shifts three days a week.....makes dang good money too.....LOL
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Post by Sunshine on May 21, 2007 9:43:41 GMT -5
well shes a keeper then aint she? i mean we all now its all about the greenbacks, right???
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Post by cajunbill2 on May 21, 2007 11:29:20 GMT -5
wroung sunshine ..every things not about money ....h...e..l...l......if they got money when they leave they take it with them and if you have it they take that to......lmao...the way i see it when its your time to goe you can't take it with you.so as long as you are happy thats what matters the most.....when i got my divorce i gave it to her h..e...l..l...it was worth every dime of it8-)
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Post by huckleberry on May 21, 2007 13:34:05 GMT -5
Money aint got hoot to do with me and her......but it aint a bad thing either.....LOL
I caint afford her and her horse that is for damned sure. Aint sure which is gonna be the highest maintenance......
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Post by Sunshine on May 21, 2007 22:36:21 GMT -5
yeah thats what ya'll say, but if it came to struggling with someone you love, or easy street with someone you could tolerate, if your honest who would you chose?
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Post by Earl8656 on May 21, 2007 22:51:23 GMT -5
I would go with love ;D
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Post by cajunbill2 on May 22, 2007 6:24:07 GMT -5
sunshine i agree with earl for love.....money might make life a lot easyer but it will not buy happiness..if you talk to some one that has a lot of money they live in fear,fear of being robbed and killed,the fear of is she marrying because she loves me or is she marrying me for the money..if i get married will she take every thing that i work for...worryed about a goof up with the IRS...the list goes on and on....a man with a lot of money 9 out of 10 are not happy
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Post by huckleberry on May 22, 2007 14:36:16 GMT -5
Love everytime!!!! No question in my mind about that.
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Post by Sunshine on May 22, 2007 20:09:10 GMT -5
ok........................
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Post by Earl8656 on May 23, 2007 1:54:44 GMT -5
Love and Honesty, don't nothing else really matter! Its hard to have one without the other!
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Post by cajunbill2 on May 23, 2007 6:34:29 GMT -5
earl again you are right because love will not last with out honesty...
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